You may find this post ironic, given my possibly controversial post on diversity yesterday.
As much as all of us who are sending our kids to kindergarten next year talk about schools, there is so much that we don’t say to one another. We don’t want to offend or judge others for their priorities. I have really cherished my closest friends during this process, the ones who I can say anything to. I pour my heart out to them and they know that I am not judging their choices. Deep down, we all know that school selection is a very personal process, and that what is right for your kid and your family will not be right for everyone. At the same time, we are anxious about this choice, which for many of us is the most important decision we have ever had to make on behalf of our child. We second guess ourselves throughout the process and change our minds regularly. Hearing someone else criticize or dismiss a school can understandably create anxiety.
As I have been publicly documenting my experiences in this process, I have been reminded of this problem perhaps more than most. Continue reading →